Appetites grow by indulgence… The world did not turn into a sex crazed machine overnight any more than any one of us went to bed at 190lbs and woke up at 300lbs…The status quo of indulging the natural cannot continue in this direction. Everything must change…and that starts with redefining our “instincts.” The question is how…
This was how we ended our conversation from last week (if you missed it, HERE it is). So where do we go from here?
First, we need to be honest and admit that we do not indulge every natural urge or instinctual thought. For instance, have you ever suddenly been hit with the urge to use the restroom? It is a very natural, necessary part of our life and bodily function. And yet when the realization comes that it is time to indulge the natural part of our being, what do we do? We wait until we can find an appropriate release point (preferably a bathroom). Even when hit with the most intense of stomach pain or bladder stretching…we find a bathroom, albeit with a little more haste.
As odd as it feels to write, and I would imagine read, about our bathroom tendencies, this is an important first step in understanding our “natural desires.”
Society tells us to indulge what it is natural because after all, it’s natural right? Billions of dollars are spent marketing to our “natural urges” so that we are instinctually compelled to buy a product without fear of guilt or shame because it’s natural. Why else would GoDaddy advertise with nudity? What point is there in a Hardees commercial with a scantily clad woman eating a 1lbs burger if it is not to awaken the strongest of instincts in males: sex and food? Because there is money to be made off of people who are coerced into believing that are instincts cannot be trained!?!
A bigger lie can rarely be found. Why? Next time you need to use the restroom, I bet you choose to delay your natural urge in the name of social and hygienic principles.
Why then are we so afraid and unable to embrace Christian principles of chastity, moderation, and just plain health? Because we’re fighting against the machine of marketing and money. There are mountains of money to be had from our sex drives and appetites. And yet we seem ok in spending it…that seems interesting considering the sociological connotations of paying for something that involves sex…
We’ve also been duped into thinking it’s impossible. So why try? And yet there are stories to be told about the beauty of what happens when God does the impossible. And yet our story in the church is about watching God do the impossible through improbable people so that we might be made whole. If this is our story, what if we actually believed that all things are possible with God? What if we lived like it?
What is the impossible thing in your life that you desperately need to overcome?